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Emma Francis Chamberlain. That's me. I don't. I don't know what I'm talking about. So. I'm excited for today. I just kind of want to sit down, catch you guys up on what's going on in my life. Not really have a specific topic, just kind of wing it. I feel like I've been giving so much advice recently. That I think I might be out of advice for now. Like I literally think I ran out. Don't worry. I will once again. Refill my advice. Points and I will be able to give advice again, but I just kind of want to talk about random **** today, so I hope you guys are ready for that. Hope guys are down for that. Hope that's cool with y'all. I kind of want to keep it light too, because I literally had a panic attack last night. The good thing about having a panic attack before bed, though, is that. You can be super anxious. It's like eating at your brain and then you have a panic attack. And then. You go right to sleep and your anxiety is like kind of gone because you're so exhausted that your brain is like, I'm over it, I'm going to sleep. So that's kind of nice, but feel a lot better today. And I'm ready to just talk about. Random **** ****. For starters. I'm gonna tell a little story. That is so incredibly stupid, but I'm going to tell it anyway. So basically, I'm obsessed with buying jeans. Like, I love jeans more than anything and I like to collect almost. I feel like, OK, I've never been one to, like, collect things I used to, like collect socks. That had like, funny things on them because I just liked socks. Kind of got over that whole thing and then have since give gotten rid of all of those socks. Took up a lot of space and never. Wore any of them after I was like 15 so. Those are at goodwill, but. I think that my new thing that I collect now is vintage jeans. Vintage, if you know what I'm talking. You're real one. Yeah, I've been really into collecting vintage jeans. I don't know why. Well, I think it's because they're so comfortable and like. I just can't stop getting them. Like, every time I find a pair. That's right. It's so lucky almost, and it's so rare that, like, I have to get them. But now that I've been collecting jeans like this for so many years, I'm kind of. I I don't. I don't have space for them like it's bad. But yet. I had a few pairs. I think it was about five that were damaged in some way. So one pair had a ****** ** zipper and then the other four pairs had a rip in the ***. OK, so like right under the pocket in the ***. These rips would happen on accident. I would sit down too fast, but rip. I know the **** rips are really trendy or whatever to have like rips in the **** of your jeans. Personally, I don't like that very much. Unless it's like in a good spot, but like, if it's right on my *** cheek, like, not really my thing. So I ripped a bunch of jeans in the *** and I was like, you know, I'm just gonna go get them fixed even though I have. Literally. 100 other pairs. I'm still going to get these fixed because I care about them and all of the pairs of denim that I have are like my babies. So I go and I get all 5 pairs of these jeans fixed. It was actually so. I couldn't believe how affordable it was. Like to get like a whole **** rip fixed. It was like 20 bucks. I was like, that is so amazing. You could go and buy a new pair of jeans or you could just fix the ones you already have for $20, like that's a pretty. I mean, I guess that's kind of expensive, but. But I I was kind of impressed. I was like, that's you know? They put a lot of work into that. For $20 that's. Cool, but anyway, so. Got all my jeans fixed? Come home. With the jeans. Put a pair on my favorite ones that ripped. And an hour into wearing them, I rip the other side. So. I immediately bring them back to the tailor and I'm like, hey, so thank you for fixing one side of my *** cheek on these jeans. Well, now you need to fix the other side. Super. Sorry, I will see you in a week. Don't know what's up with that. Super upsetting. Vintage jeans are great, but they do be ripping in the *** for no reason. And it's not like I have a big booty, so it's not like there's any reason for this to be happening to me. Like I don't deserve this, so just thought I'd share. Umm yeah. OK, another thing I'm going to talk about, because it just ******* happened to me right now. I just looked at my clock and it's 10:11 AM. I have been looking at the clock every day at. 111 two 11311 four 11511 six 11711 every like time with 11 as the minute. I don't know what that means actually. Should we read what it means together? Let's find out. OK, so I'm going to look up what seeing the number 11 means. I mean, obviously I'm not super spiritual. I mean, I kind of am in my own way, but not really. I still like to look this **** up because it's like interesting to me. So let's read what seeing 11 a lot means. I also see it everywhere. Like it's not just on the clock. Like I see 11 all the time. It's kind of become my favorite number. And I know that everybody makes a wish at 11:11, but like, I'm seeing 11. At every hour, like every hour, I'm seeing 11. And it kind of makes me weirdly feel safe, like I can't put a finger on it. It could be like just my brain has like a mental clock and I know to look at that time or something subconsciously, but either way there's something about it. It makes me feel like I have like a guardian Angel or something. I don't know if that's crazy, but. It's been happening for so many months and. It makes me weirdly feel safe for some reason. So anyway, let's find out what 11 means. 11 is a message from the Angels concerning your sole mission or greater life purpose. They are sending you inspiration and encouragement to develop your abilities in ways that will help all of humanity. #11 symbolizes the principles of spiritual enlightenment in awakening and is a reminder from our angels that we have come to this physical world from the realm of spirit. God this is. Something. It's an extremely high vibration. Angel #11 reveals that we have great powers of intuition which make us highly empathetic. Basically, it looks like my soul's larger purpose is within reach. I don't know what that means, but. I'm excited to find out. I do kind of feel like I have been having an awakening recently, though. Like, I'm not gonna lie, I I feel like the past few months. I've just learned so much about myself, like I've been revisiting things that have happened to me in the past. And like coming to terms with them. I've been like, forgiving people, whether I say it to their face or not. I feel like I've been forgiving people. Behind their back or to their face? For things I feel like I. Have matured a lot in the past month. I've. Learned a lot of lessons and I feel like. For the first time in my life, I'm kind of like, you know what I used to be scared of, like, growing up in, like, doing the things that you do when you grow up, for example, next steps in your life, like getting married, like ******* being 40, like, I don't know. Those are like scary things that I think I was dreading for a long time. And I feel like recently I've kind of found that those things aren't that scary and they're actually really exciting. And, you know, even though I'm not even close to being there yet, I'm 19 years old. I feel like. I've grown this like appreciation for that, like that. That's gonna happen to me one day, hopefully. And like, I'm excited for that. I also feel like I've become a lot more level headed. I feel like I used to be really emotional, and I'm still emotional for sure, but I think I've kind of like settled down. I don't feel the need to be as loud all the time. I don't feel the need to be talking all the time as much. I used to just talk constantly and be loud, kind of and obnoxious at times. I feel like I'm just kind of over it, like I just am not trying to prove anything to anybody anymore. I'm just kind of settled into. To myself, you know what I mean, so don't know what that means. Don't know if that has something to do with the fact that I've been seeing the number 11, but those things kind of go hand in hand, so that's really interesting. I don't know what it all means. I just looked in the mirror and my hair is. I honestly love being blonde. Y'all I went blonde recently. And I ******* love it. I like, didn't think I was going to love it this much, but I started using this like certain shampoo that like makes your blonde like more. Like, like less orangey, less yellowy, and like more. I don't know. I don't know. Less brassy, I guess. And I, like love my blonde hair. 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And you can set it to whatever setting you want. So you could set it to a setting where when you take a sip of water, it just tastes like water, so there's no flavor added. But if you're in the mood to add some flavor, you can twist it a little bit. And then you have a super flavorful sip. Right now Circle is giving all of my listeners. Up to 35% off their order, plus free shipping on all orders of $15 or more. Plus, as an added bonus, we're throwing in my favorite flavor, strawberry Kiwi, for free. Just visit drink circom Emma. That's drink Cir UL com Emma to get this limited time offer today again, that's drinkcircle.com/emma. So recently I went surfing for the first time. I was on a family trip and my dad's super into surfing. So he was like come surfing with me. So I was like fashio and I went two days in a row. The first day I went, I did not. I got up on the board like maybe twice. Not really. Like not. It wasn't great. I got really cold really fast because of the ocean in Northern California is like 57 degrees. And I was wearing a very thin wetsuit. So I was so cold and the rest of my family had these thick wet suits on and I'm wearing this thin little wet suit and I could just feel the cold water like in my *******. Like it was just awful. And I got cold so fast and I had to get out. Pretty quickly, but got up on the. Bored a few times. I don't know if this is going to become a new thing for me. I think I like the idea of surfing more than I actually like surfing itself. Like, I like the idea of me being like, yeah, I'm to go out and hit the waves today. And I cannot wait. The swell looks crazy and I'm just like, I'm excited to get out there. Like, I just wanna say **** like that, but. And I don't even know what I just said or if that makes sense, but I like the idea of it. I like the aesthetic of it like I like the vibe of all of it. Uh, but when it comes to actually surfing, like, I don't know if I have the patience to learn. I don't know. Second day I went out, I was having really bad anxiety the whole day. And then I got in the water and I'm like, the water was creeping up. It went from, you know, my toes to my knees to my stomach and then to my like chest. And I was like, it was so cold that I started crying in the water. And I had a panic attack in the water because I was already really anxious and so like. Going out into the freezing cold ocean. Whilst having bad anxiety was like not a good combination, so I fully start crying. And I was, like, having a panic attack in the water. And my dad was with me, and he's like, what's going on? I was like, I'm literally having a panic attack. And I was like, trying to, like, swallow my tears, but I couldn't stop crying. It was so bizarre. And I don't know. I don't know. It was weird, but then that day I was almost like once my panic attack was over, it was very short, I pushed it away. Then I actually caught even more waves because I was kind of like, **** this, I don't even care about anything, so I'm just going to. Say Yolo and just. Send it. So I did. And then I got up more times than I did the day before, so I was good glad you didn't give up. Surfing is fun. I don't know. We'll see if I end up doing anything with it now that I'm. Like, I feel like my hair like matches the vibe of surfing though, because I'm blonde and it's like looks like, I like go in the sun a lot. Cause like my hair looks like kind of sun bleached in a way. So I feel like I fit the vibe right now. So it's like I might as well ride this wave, no pun intended, but I don't know. We'll see. Another thing that's been interesting is that I haven't been wearing makeup recently. I had like this phase where like I didn't want to be around anybody without wearing makeup for like. Probably. Six months. Just because, I mean, honestly, it was because I was on Accutane and so and my acne was kind of bad and like. I was pale too, because when you. When you're on Accutane you can't go in the sun and so like I was super self-conscious about. How like sickly. I almost looked because I was so pale. And. Yeah, it was just like embarrassing to me for some reason. Yeah, I was really pale. My acne was kind of bad. So I was just also for some reason when I was on Accutane my face would get Super red and swollen. For some reason, like I don't know why, but it would just get like really puffy and like I would get like hot flashes almost like I was literally going through menopause and. So I just like felt better with makeup on, but. Now I'm off Accutane. I'm like probably a month off of it. I've been tanning because I'm finally allowed to tan again and my skin is good. I do have a zit right now, actually. My first zit since I'm off Accutane, but I don't even care. I'm like, I'm not going to wear makeup anymore. I just like. Not wearing makeup makes me feel so much more free in a way. I feel like I don't have to worry about rubbing my eyes. I don't have to worry about it falling down my face. I don't have to worry about breaking out from the products I'm using. It's just, like nice to just have a clean face, you know? And like. And just let my skin breathe. And I feel like my skin looks so much better from it. So. It's kind of a win win, but it took me a long time to get to this point where I'm just like, **** this, I don't want to wear makeup. It's scary to not wear makeup like in front of. Certain people, like, there's certain people where you're like, oh, it's fine. But like if you. Say. Like, say, if you have a crush on a guy and you're going to hang out with them, of course you're going to ******* wear makeup. I mean that, of course, but at least that's how my brain was. I was like, of course I'm wear makeup. I'm not going to not wear makeup. But now I'm like, **** that. Like, I'm just gonna not wear makeup at all. Ever. Kind of go back to my roots. I used to do that on my YouTube channel when I had really bad acne. I just was like, **** this, I'm not gonna wear makeup because I don't like how it feels on my face and if people are think I look less good. Without makeup on, then. That's their ******* problem. So. That is that, but it feels really good and I challenge you guys to. Take a makeup break. You know it's good for your skin. It's good for your mind. I think it also helps you. It makes you feel more confident sometimes in like. In the way that your face looks when it's with makeup. OK, wait, I'll explain this I feel like. If I stop wearing makeup for a while, then when I start wearing it again, like I have a new appreciation for the way that makeup accentuates my features, you know what I mean? Whereas when I'm wearing makeup every day, like, I just start to get used to it and then I start to like, nitpick it and I'm like, Oh my foundation doesn't lay very well on my face. Like, I look bad or like, whatever. But if I take a break from wearing makeup, even if I'm just inside all week, and then I start wearing makeup again, I'm like, wow, it's really cool how it accentuates my features. It's more of a positive experience. Do you know what I'm saying? So take and make a break. See what happens. Also, I feel like being able to go outside and tan for me has been really nice because it just. Get some vitamin D in. And, you know, it feels good to have a tan. It makes me look healthier. Like, I look healthier when I'm not, just like when I don't like a ******* vampire that sits inside. So I'm trying to tan. Although I know tanning is like, not good for you, but I literally can't stop. I do hate it though, like the process of tanning is so irritating. Like, who the **** wants to just, like, lay outside and be sweaty for 30 minutes? I do 15 minutes on each side. Usually cause the UV index is insane in LA, which is basically how strong the sun is. So, like, if I lay out for longer than that, I will. It's not healthy, so I I do 15 minutes on each side. Been growing a nice healthy tan. It's been great. Got nice orange nails to match my tan until one of my nails broke and now all the nail salons are closed in LA so I don't know what to do and I'm scared. My thumb looks like it went into a blender like it. It looks terrible, but. There's nothing I can do about it, and I can't fix acrylics on my own. And. I might do a road trip somewhere to get my nails done. No joke like I might drive. A few hours away to ohh Frankie, don't do that. I might literally drive. To San Francisco to get my nails done and then come back like it's kind of tempting because they love having my nails done. But anyway, whatever. Last thing I'm gonna talk about is jewelry. Because I've been obsessed with jewelry recently, I am gonna look at what I have going on right now. I've I'm obsessed with getting piercings, for one. Obsessed. Like I love piercings. Love getting my ear all pierced up. Although they always get infected and close up. But I think that this time, like the last time I got my ears pierced, my body reacted properly. So now. I think that these ones might be here to stay, but here's what I've been into recently, mixing gold and silver. OK, I had this phase where I was like, only silver jewelry. Nothing else. But now I'm like gold and silver. It's every it's kind of everything like I've been wearing. This gold chain necklace within a little silver lock necklace. And then I have a bunch of different gold and silver hoops in my ears, and it's just like, so ******* fun. Jewelry is really fun and I it took me so long to figure it out. Like it's one of the best accessories I think and. I'm obsessed with it, but it is hard to find good jewelry places, so if you guys have any, let me know, preferably ones that aren't. That are. Decent quality because I do get infections in my ears when it comes to necklaces and ****. I don't care where it's from, but like with earrings, they have to be. Real metal. Or else I get an infection, so shout out to my body for literally rejecting everything. Fun because there's so many cute, fun earrings. That I love so much, but that I can't wear because they'll give me an ear infection so and make my ears. Drip with pus. So yeah. You know, I also, Speaking of piercings, I made-up my I made a decision that I'm never getting a tattoo. I don't think it matches my personality. I don't. I I love tattoos on other people. I think it's like so ******* cool. And I I love it. I love seeing people's tattoos. I think it's like a very. It can be very attractive thing as well. I really like it just is like cool when people have tattoos. I like it, but not for me. I not for me. I was talking to my dad and I was like, I. Don't think I can ever get a tattoo. And he was like, I can't picture you with one, I can't. So that's that. I know I was gonna get biggie big tattoo. I know I talked about that big my stuffed animal as a kid, but I think that's cancelled and I think I'm never going to get a tattoo. I'm very indecisive and my mind changes about things. Very quickly, so I don't think it's a good idea anyway. I'm done talking about me. All of that stuff was so boring and irrelevant, but I just kind of wanted to. Talk about things that were light for a change. And hopefully it wasn't too boring, but now I'm going to. Answer random questions. I just asked you guys to send me random questions. If you want to tweet questions to me for the podcast at AG podcast on Twitter, let me find. Some questions to answer and I will be back. We're talking about Macy's again. 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Make my child an Instagram when they're ******* first born. I know people do that. They like, make their baby an Instagram when their babies are like, I'm gonna keep my child off the Internet until they're like, mom, I really want to phone and like, mom, everybody at school is Instagram. Like I'm going to keep them almost in the dark about all of it until it's like. Not avoidable anymore, if that makes sense. I want my kid to have as normal of a childhood as possible. Which is another reason why I don't want to raise my kid in LA, because I feel like here, it's like everybody's kind of a few steps ahead. I'm going to keep my kid off of it for as long as possible, but then at a certain point it's inevitable. They're gonna be like, hey, I want an Instagram, and that's when I'm gonna give them a huge. Talk about everything. I'm going to be like, OK, here's the rules. Everything on the Internet is permanent. The Internet is not real life. Never be mean to people on the Internet. Don't talk to strangers on the Internet. Give them the whole ******* rundown. But I'm also not going to. Be the type of parent. That's like. You're only allowed to go on your phone for 15 minutes a day because. At the same time, you have to give your child the freedom. And we do live in a world where, like, our phones are very important. And so I'm not gonna like, I'm gonna let my kid learn for themselves, but I'm also going to. Make sure that I'm consistently planting seeds about. How toxic it can be and how you need to be careful about XY and Z. So it's like a balance. I'm not gonna, I'm gonna keep them away from it for as long as possible, but at the same time, once they get on their phones and they start to do the whole thing, you know, what can I do? But I'm definitely gonna keep my child off the Internet. I don't know what I'm even gonna be doing when I'm an adult with my life, but I know for a fact that I'm gonna keep my kid off the Internet at least like I wouldn't. I'm not gonna post a photo of my child. I just can't. Because I have seen the way that it like. If if my kid isn't OK with it. Then it's not gonna. I need them to tell me, mom, I'm I want to be on the Internet like I like this like I wanna be. In your video or, you know, whatever, and I'll consider it. But even then, like, no, I don't know, I I think the internet's so awful, but also, like, so amazing, but also, like, so awful. And it can be so scary, especially for somebody who's developing, like the effects that it has on. Kids and their self esteem is so terrible and like the things that it can cause. I mean, you know, I struggled with so many different. Mental things because of the Internet and I want my kid to. Grow up without that if possible. I don't know if it's possible, but I'm gonna do my absolute best to protect them from it, but also hopefully show them how the Internet can be fun and. Hopefully help them have a healthy relationship with it. When it comes to enforcing kids privileges. I have never been a believer in like being overly controlling of your child, I feel like. If my kid wants to spend all day on their phone. They're going to figure out on their own that that doesn't make them feel very good. And I'll be there to be like, hey. You're feeling a little bit down in the dumps. That's This is why. It's because you were on your phone all day. But. That's up to you. You know what I mean. If you'd rather go get notion or something with me instead. Let's go do that. But if you want to be on your phone all day, that's up to you. You know what I mean? If it starts to get out of control, then whatever. But I also think that it's very normal, so. It's about giving your kids. The option like, you don't, you know, you can be on your phone if you want, or you can come like live in the real world with me and we can go do something fun. You know what I mean? And I think. Spending time with your child as well will help prevent that. If you like, give your kids things to do, put them into sports. You know, get them started on some hobbies. Take them to the beach, take them to go get food, like, do things like that, so that. They don't. Have as much of a reason to sit on their phone all day? I don't know. The best thing you can do is just tell your child. The truth of the matter. In a way that's respectful of them, like. If you approach your kid like, hey, you know? I want you to do what makes you happy and do it. I want you to feel like you have freedom, but at the same time, I need to tell you the dangers of this situation in a way that makes them feel supported but not like they're in trouble. I think that they're actually going to listen. I don't know. We'll see. I won't probably have a kid for another, what, 10 years? So we have some time to think about that more. Somebody asked what's my wider family's opinion on my career? I think in the beginning. My family. My parents were in it with me, so that's kind of different, but. Like my entire family, I think they were kind of like what is going on and I think it was really confusing in the beginning for everybody, but I think now everybody's kind of. Has you know, it's been I've been on the Internet for. Three years. So I think everybody's kind of used to it now, understands the whole thing and they're really supportive and I'm really grateful for that. But I think it took some time for everybody to understand like what I'm doing and why I'm doing it and. That this is like a serious thing, and it's kind of not just like a little jokey thing that I'm, you know what I mean? Like. I don't think people realize how serious it was. Like, I don't think my family necessarily realized how serious it was until I, like, moved out and all of that. And we've had a lot of conversations about it, and they've asked a lot of questions, and now I think we're all on the same page and they kind of see it for what it is, which is awesome. But I don't also expect people who don't, who aren't in it to understand it. Like it's a very weird thing and it's also a very new thing, you know what I mean? This didn't exist. 20 years ago so like. We're all kind of learning about this whole thing together. And. Yeah, but they're they're into it. They support me and I think that they're proud of me, and I'm really grateful for that. Next are you going to live in LA for the rest of your life? No. I've made my decision now recently. I've decided no. I used to say yes, but, like, I literally hate it here. Right now for some reason I can't put a finger on it, but I don't like it right now. I'm kind of ****** *** with LA at the moment. I wanna raise my kid somewhere else. Maybe give my kids some seasons, maybe raise my kid in like, California, but like, she just. Not. In LA. LA is an awful, toxic place. It also is very amazing and there's very many amazing opportunities and there's some amazing people here as well as shady. But there's also some really amazing people here that I wouldn't have met if I never lived here that I think have changed my life. And like, I would never trade that for the world, but at the same time I. I don't want to live here forever. Like I want my friends and like whoever I marry to move somewhere else. When we're like 30 or something, I don't know where that location's gonna be, but definitely not ******* here. The other weekend I was in this little beach town in Northern California and I was like, this is so amazing. It's so chill here. There's not a lot to do, but then again, when you're next to the beach you can just go to the beach every day I guess. I was like this is like perfect like this would be a perfect place for as a kid. Maybe too boring, I don't know. But like. A little beach town somewhere I feel like would be very amazing and. That's kind of my life goal. I'm kind of excited for that part of my life. Because I'm kind of sick of being like in this. Constant go go go state of being in LA and like. I don't know, and it's just kind of scary here. I don't know. I'm ready to get out of it eventually. Somebody said. Are there any other types of media you want to venture in like reality shows acting honestly? No. I'm really happy with Chamberlain Coffee and. YouTube and podcast and, you know, social media in general, which everybody does. So that's not really like. Whatever. But I'm really happy with it. I don't have like a passion for acting. I don't really have an interest in being in a reality show like I don't feel the need to like. I think a lot of people. Want to keep? Adding more things to their list of things that they do or whatever. And that's great. But like, I think that sometimes they can force it. And I don't ever want to force anything. I if I wanted to be an actor, I would be an actor. I wouldn't have became a YouTuber. I want to be a YouTuber. I like being myself on camera, which is why being an actor would just not work for me. Like, I think I'd cringe too much. Actors really do hard work because that ***** like so mentally confusing and I have some friends that act and I just like it just doesn't appeal to me, like, whatever. And I Can't Sing, so definitely won't be going into music. And but I love listening to it, so that's perfect. Yeah. For now, I'm just, I love working on Chamberlain Coffee, I love making YouTube videos and I love making podcasts. So I'm just going to stick to that and we'll see where that takes me. I think I'm more interested in like. Instead of going like doing more things where like, I'm the personality in it, I really like the idea of like. Having a business in learning about that because I'm passionate about that and it's a confusing process, but. That's something that I'm more interested in than, say, becoming an actor or something. Moving on. Is there something you look back on and regret doing? You know, I've been struggling with this recently because I'm always somebody that believed to like, live with no regret. Like I I believe that. You can't regret things. I mean, obviously if you do something like. Really bad. Like, I don't know even if you like commit a crime. Like let's say you like steal from a store and you. Go to jail or something. Obviously certain crimes is different, but like I'm talking about something that. Didn't necessarily harm anyone. When it comes to the other stuff, that's a whole nother conversation. But let's say you do something really not good, right? Like steel or, you know, I don't know you. Cheat on somebody. I've never done that, but. I'm just giving examples like things like that. The thing is. I feel like the way that people should look at mistakes is not like in a way of regret. But in a way of. Wanting to learn and grow from it. You know what I mean. I. I do have regrets for sure. Like there's things that I regret. But. At the same time, I wouldn't be me without those things, and every single one of the things that I quote, UN quote regret I've learned so much from. I do my absolute best every single day to turn my feeling of regret into a feeling of. Inspiration to be a better person and to. Do the right thing and to take care of myself and to take care of others and to treat people right like I use it as inspiration for that. And I also appreciate the lessons that those regrets have taught me and so. I think that if you look at it like that, having regrets is actually a really positive thing and it can help you become a better person, whereas just sitting there and regretting something doesn't get you anywhere but using it as. A way to grow and learn about something is is great, like I've had regrets where? They've taught me something that, like, there's no way I would have learned otherwise, and I'm so grateful for that lesson. But the problem is, you have to make the mistake to learn that lesson sometimes, and that's what's ****** about life. But. If you live in regret, you won't. Ever be able to move past it? But if you accept that, you've done what you've done. And. You take the steps to be a better person and do better and not do that same thing again. Then that's actually a really amazing thing. OK, so if I were to host a live radio show and I could play any music I wanted. I would honestly probably have the time of my Life OK, but I'll admit I would probably end up playing. Just sad music. I don't know what it is about me, but I love sad music, OK? And so I'd probably end up playing. A lot of sad music. Specifically for the people who are listening in the car by themselves. That want to shed a tear in a good way? Well now there is a place that I or you or anyone can host a live show. Amp is the platform that allows people to come together and create live, unfiltered radio shows with whatever music or content that they love. And this is like a real show where you can have people listening live and you can pick exactly which songs to play, and you can even have fans calling in to chat while you're on air. If I had a live show, I would definitely. Have people call in and ask me for dating advice honestly, so I think I'd have to do dating advice. You know what this actually sounds like the perfect radio show. Sad music combined with dating advice, because all of the shows on AMP are run by real people. You can tell that the playlists are authentic. 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I love that you guys get my sense of humor and, like, know how to make me laugh. Like, sometimes, you know, if I'm in, if I'm kind of bummed out, I'll be on Twitter. And, you know, somebody will, like, tweet me something that's really funny and, like, that makes my day, you know what I mean? And I love that. And I love that you guys get me like that. So definitely that, but also just, you know. The support and you know the understanding that you have, you guys have. For me is really special and I just. Appreciate the support and like the. And the love that you guys give me that I feel like is so special. Somebody said what would be the perfect soundtrack for a movie of your life? Definitely this charming man by the this mask would be in it. Definitely. We're going to be friends by blacks. Is it black stripes? White stripes? That's embarrassing. The White Stripes. It's in the Napoleon Dynamite movie, and that song will forever. Be in my head also what you know by two Door Cinema Club would be in there. Definitely such great heights by the Postal Service. Definitely a lack of color by death Cab for Cutie. West Coast by Coconut Records. Dare by Gorillaz for sure also. Read my mind by the killers. Any Tame Impala song? Any Casey Musgrave song. Any song by the Strokes. Umm. Any song by Wings, Paul McCartney and wings, any Beatles song, David Bowie as well would be in there. Vampire Weekend would be in there, Recharge County would be in there. Oh my God the Growlers would would need to be in there. That's a crazy one. Beach Falls and the Walters as well. God. Gus Dapper Tanum would be in there. Ohh, the band hers would be in there especially. What's that song called? It's like my favorite song. How did I forget what once was by hers? Oh my God, sorry, I need to stop. That's like, I don't know why I just went in so hard on that. Somebody said I can't get over the fact that all my friends have boyfriends at the moment and I don't. The thing is, I don't even want to be with anyone and I couldn't see myself being in a long term commitment. It's very scary to me. Have you ever felt this way? Absolutely. I had a period of time there were I was the only single friend and. All my friends had boyfriends and I was like, holy **** this is awful, what do I do? This have been multiple times in my life because I like, really have a hard time finding people I like and then when I do, it's like, great. But. It's at least great for as long as it's going to be great. I mean, it depends. But The thing is, if you aren't ready to be in a committed relationship, I know that it's hard because. When you know your friends have a boyfriend and you don't. Or girlfriend if if your friends are in a relationship in general and you're not. It can feel it makes you feel very isolated because you're like, OK. They're busy with their significant other like all the time, right? Cause, OK, when you're dating somebody, you hang out with them. At night sometimes, or you go to dinner with them or you like, get coffee with them or whatever, and you're like doing things with them. And those are normally times that you would have spent with your friend. But then now your friend is with their boyfriend or girlfriend or significant other and you're like, Oh my God, what the ****? Like now I have all this free time and like, I'm kind of feel left out because. I now have to split my time with my friend with this significant other. The thing is. This is a great time for you to make more friends. It's a great time for you to. Start a hobby. Start like putting that extra love into whatever you're into at the moment. You know what I mean? Like, this is a great opportunity to focus on you. Because if you're like, if you were ready for a relationship, then like, **** yeah, have fun. Try to, like, find someone you're interested in. Send a few DM's. Walk up to somebody at a coffee shop. Like, ******* send it. But if you're not ready then. Just spend this time on yourself. Work on yourself, make yourself better. But also don't be afraid of committed relationships. I'm like. You know, I don't know if this is weird about me, but I like don't have any hesitation with it. Like I'm never like. I'm either yes or no. When it comes to that type of stuff, I feel like I'm either like yes, I would date you for sure, or like I don't want to have anything to do with you at all. I don't really talk to people usually. Unless I'm, like, interested in something more than just, like a conversation or like a little thingy, you know, like, I'm not in it. To be messing around I guess. Like I I like really plan on things being for the long haul. Like I don't ever plan on it being like yeah, I'll probably date this person for a few months and then I'm out like or ohh I'll get with this person for like a few months and then I'm out. But I don't want to put a label on it like I like. That security, you know, and I like being in a I mean, as long as the person I'm with is good. Like being in a relationship is a really beautiful thing. And. If it's the right one, then you're going to be learning and growing from it while you're in it as well. So don't be afraid. You know what I mean. Just wait for that right person to come along. And it's it's actually can be a really beautiful thing. I didn't think that was possible though. I used to think that like long term relationships in general, I was like, I don't think that there's any way that this can be. I I always thought of it as being something that like takes. That, like, knocks you down a few levels. Does that make sense? Like I always thought, like, OK, if you're in a relationship, then you you're giving up, you're giving up your freedom and you're giving up like your drive and all the stuff like. You're going to become lazy, and you're gonna whatever but. That's actually not true. I think that if you're in the right relationship, you. Will be literally learning and growing and like becoming better. Way faster than you would have on your own. Like being in the right relationship will. Force you to like want to be a better person and will like force you to work harder and like. Will force you to, kind of. Look at things that you've been doing in a new way because you're like, would this person that I'm with now like? How would they have felt about the things that I did in my past or how, you know, whatever and then it makes you like? Think about it. It makes you want to be better. You know what I mean? When you admire the person that you're with and they like, push you to be better in a way that's not judgmental, right? Because that's key. But I think that's a ******* beautiful thing. So, you know, obviously don't force yourself into anything, but also don't be scared. Like it can be a really beautiful thing that can teach you a lot. And. Yeah. Somebody said, is Coachella legitimately stressful for you? Like the idea of planning outfits and meeting tons of people and being in big crowds. Like, I know it's Coachella, so it's obviously gonna be fun, but doesn't make you anxious, honestly, no, I I mean, I get a little bit anxious, but it's more like just excited for me. I'm a very, well, I don't know about anymore. I used to be a very social person. Like craved social interaction, like just loved being in big crowds of people, loved meeting new people, could talk to anybody, whatever. And I'm still like that for sure. But I also feel like I don't really have this, like, craving for it as much anymore. I used to be like so excited to go to something like Coachella because I would just see so many people that I knew at once. And it was like so interesting. And it was like kind of fun to people watch and like, you never know what's gonna happen. You're gonna have so many fun conversations with people. You're gonna see so many people, see so many different outfits. It it was like fun. It's exciting. But now I'm gonna like. I'm really content with like my home life. Right now, so I'm almost like. I don't really. I'm kind of like, yes, when Coachella comes around like, you best believe it's going to be amazing and I cannot wait. But also, I'm not like I don't crave these social interactions anymore. And I do think that they actually have been giving me a little bit more anxiety recently than they used to. I think I used to just like. Love being around people. But now I do think that. It's been giving me a little bit more anxiety because it's like, I'm the type of person where I never used to think like this, but recently I have been. And maybe this is a bad thing, but I now like, get anxiety about, like, what I said. Like, I'm like, what if that joke wasn't funny? Or like, what if they thought I was annoying? Or like, what if you know? I like overshared. Or like what, if you know what I mean. There's like so many things to worry about after you're done talking to somebody. It's so much. Easier to just be with the people that you love, know and trust. Hang out with them, talk to them about your feelings, hang out with them. And then there's no risk because you know that you can trust them. Talking to people that you don't know that well is like kind of risky. I also have this, like, constant paranoia about like. People like. Lying about. Like, what if OK, like, I have this, like, anxiety where I'm like, what if I walked up to somebody and was like, you're outfits really cute? And then they went and told everybody that I said that their outfit was ugly? Like, I have this anxiety that people like. Have it out for me or something. I don't know why that is, but it's like this weird paranoia constantly where I feel like people are trying to like. Change my character like they want. Does that make sense or like? Make me look bad or something and that's not true. Like, I don't think that that's true. I don't actually think people do that or are trying to do that at all. But I think that. I do have a like fear of that, and I think that I get anxiety about that, see? But like see how irrational that is? How irrational is it to be up all night in bed being like, what if somebody lies about me? What? Like that's just so like. Out of my control and like something that I could easily be like, hey guys, this is not true, but like I always have like fears of people, like lying about my character. And I think that being around a lot of people at once makes that anxiety worse and just anxiety worse in general. But Coachella is fun. I am really excited. I can't wait to. Have coordinating outfits with all my friends and all like three of them, and. And it's gonna be crazy. But that was like really off topic. I don't really know where what happened. Somebody asked me, have you ever pooped completely naked? Yes, sometimes. Sometimes you just need to get naked. Yeah, I've definitely done that, whether it was before the shower or it was. Or things just got a little bit too out of hand and. Clothes started flying off. It has happened. Somebody said do you really see everything on Twitter? Also, do you have anything muted? I don't have anything muted. I don't even know how to do that, but I also I don't. I definitely don't see everything on Twitter because I don't go on Twitter. That much? Uh, I've found it can be like a really, really crazy, overwhelming, anxiety provoking app and like, so I definitely don't see everything because I'm not on it all the time. I do definitely go on it, but just like, not a lot. Just because I feel like it can really affect my brain in a negative way. And there's just like so much information all at once and it can be so overwhelming. So I do avoid it because of that. But. I don't have anything muted so I don't know how that works. Somebody said I was diagnosed with anxiety three months ago and my doctor was getting me a therapist and I freaked out. I convinced my family that I was fine because I was scared. Even though it wasn't, the thought of me talking to new people scares me. Love you and your podcast and trust you to ask you for advice. Well, I'm so glad that you feel like you can ask me for advice. I really appreciate that and I'm here for you always. So here's the thing that you need to remember. The thing that I think I used to hate, hate, hate, hate. Therapy, because I went to therapy for a few years when I was younger. Actually it was only a few months, but. I didn't like it either. It made my problems worse at the time and. I really hated it, but. I think it was just because I didn't have a good therapist. Like, I don't think I had a good match. Here's the thing. What you need to remember is this person is talking to people all day about their problems, OK? They're not judging you for yours, if anything. You never have to talk to this person again. You can tell them anything you want. And if for some reason you get uncomfortable and you're like, I don't want to see this person ever again, like, I embarrass myself, you just don't you stop going to that therapist. Like, it's a very low risk situation. I know that it's scary, but I can promise you that it does feel really good to get everything off your chest, and therapists can really help. My experience was personally not the best. But at the same time. I do believe that therapists can be a really, really useful thing. And I remember when I I remember I was going through a really tough time and I actually called a therapist once. She just did sessions, like one off sessions on the phone and like, she really helped me. You know, and it was scary to give her a call, but once I did it, it was like really, it felt really good and I felt this huge weight lifted. I think that you give it a try and if you don't like it, you can always stop going. So. Don't bottle up your feelings and don't invalidate your feelings because. You're afraid of going to a therapist, or you're afraid of what people will think. Sometimes you have to do uncomfortable things to help you with your problems to later. Have a better, happier, healthier life. Coffee time. He OK? Oh my God. I'm really hungry for some reason. I don't know why. I'm too lazy to cook. I also I think all my avocados are rotten. So I was going to make eggs with avocados, but I don't think I can because I don't think my avocados are. I think they're rotten, so anyways, Umm, OK. How do you forget about somebody that you spend every day of your life with for years? I can't do it and I was completely cut from their life. It's so hard. You know, this is interesting because. I don't know if you're ever going to forget. I don't think you are. There's people that I was really close to. I'm not close to anymore. And where, you know, the loss of them has really hurt me. And I have never forgotten about them. Like I I I still think about them sometimes to this day, but I think that the way that I think about them now is a lot. It doesn't hurt me to think about them, yes, they're going to cross my mind occasionally, of course, but it doesn't hurt me anymore. So it's all with time. It there's nothing that you can do. To make yourself. Not care anymore, OK? You're going to care. Like that's ******* normal and it's inevitable. But I think that you just have to be patient with yourself, don't beat yourself up over it, and eventually you're going to be able to think of them. And be like, oh, this is a passing thought. And. I hope that they're doing well. I'm sorry I was yawning. I hope that they're doing well, but. I'm just gonna. Push that thought away, you know what I mean? You just, like, let it be a passing thought. But I mean, there's no way, like, I think my parents probably even think about, like, their first. Relationships or some of their old friends that they don't have anymore. Like, there's no way that, like, I don't think that **** goes away. That's always gonna be in your brain. But it's about how you feel about it when you think of it. And I think that you're going to get to a point where. It doesn't hurt you anymore. Somebody asked what would 15 year old Emma think of current Emma? Oh my God. Honestly, I I know I don't wanna be an ******* but I think 15 year old me would be like, wow. I think my 15 year old me would be really proud of myself. Because I have. Really? Blossomed a lot and. In a short amount of time and I think that I would be really relieved in like excited to see that and I think 15 year old me would also be really happy that I. Found something I was passionate about, finally and like. I think that me and 15 year old me would be friends for sure. And I'd have a lot of advice for 15 year old me that I probably I would be giving advice to 15 year old me and 15 year old me would be like, shut the **** ** and not listen. And that's what's wrong with me. So anyway. But I think we would be friends. Somebody said in a. If there was the purge. You know from the movie. I don't. I didn't even see the movie. But I know it's like there's no laws for 24 hours or some. Would you hide or would you go out and do something? Definitely hide 1000% hide. But I also feel like somebody would probably try to kill me. I don't know who it would be, but I I wouldn't be surprised if somebody's trying to kill me. So I would definitely go into a closet, lock it, and. Knock him out until it was over. I would literally go to another city like I would in hide in Alaska or something. I have no interest in hurting others, stealing things. Or anything of that sort. And that's not very. That doesn't sound fun to me. Somebody said, did you ever listen to One Direction when you're younger? Everybody's talking about One Direction on Twitter and don't be mad at me, but I still don't know why, because they don't go on Twitter enough and so, like, I didn't read into it. I guess they might be doing something together or something, or they're all friends again or something. I don't. I don't really know what's going on, but I didn't really listen to a lot of One Direction as a kid or Justin Bieber. Like, I never really was into the pop music thing like as a kid for some reason. I didn't even really listen to music until like freshman year of high school, 8th grade Ish. So like I was kind of out of the loop. But I did know definitely a strong handful of One Direction songs and there are definitely a few that I liked. And I also like that song by Niall. That's like the one that is really sweet. I don't know, it's called like this town or something. That's not it. It's not called this town. I don't know, but like, what's it called? I'm gonna find it. It's on my sleepy time playlist. Oh, here it is. Yeah, it is called this town. OK. Anyway, really good song. Very relaxing. Somebody said I'm a junior in high school, still have no clue what I want to do with my life. And I just feel pressured telling me that I should already know. I guess it's not really a question, but I need some advice. The thing is, there is this pressure in our society in general to like, know what you want to do with your life when you're like ******* born. Like people just expect you to like know how you what you want to do with your whole life. That is just so unrealistic and it's so sad that like. That's the world that we live in where like we have to have our **** figured out the 2nd that we breathe our first breath. Like that's just so annoying and not true. I think that you know. You will find it on your own time, and there's no rush, and even if you go to college for four years for something that you're kind of iffy on. Just that's OK. Like you don't need to know. If you need to ******* take a gap here or something to figure it out, like if you don't want to go to college at all, like there's no rules. Like, I know that everybody says, Oh my God, and look at I just looked at my ******* phone. It's 1111. God, I literally swear to God. I don't understand why this keeps happening with this number. Oh my God, it's scaring me. Anyway. You don't need to have your **** all figured out. Be patient with yourself. It's gonna come on its own time when you're ready to discover it. Ooh, somebody said. Can we get some sneak peeks of what's coming up on Chairman Coffee? Listen, y'all. I can't say a lot, but I'm gonna make a whole. There's something, something big. OK, so something I'm this is what I can say. I think I might have to send this to my team and make sure it's OK. Something very big this Chamberlain coffee. Is changing and it's getting a lot cooler, a lot better. And a lot of things are going to change very soon. And we've been working on it for so long and I'm so excited. I can't talk about it yet, but just know that, like, I'm very excited about it and I don't think I've ever been this excited about something in my life. New products and another whole change of things are changing. Get excited. Oh, this is really interesting. Somebody said. Has there ever been a time in your life where you thought you had everything together, but then you reflected on that time and realized that you were actually wrong? PS Sorry, this is kind of dark. Absolutely. Oh my God, yes, so. I've like, I can like think of specifically a time in my life when I was definitely not doing well. But like, I had convinced myself that, like the people in my life and like the things I was doing with my life were good. Because I was like. That because I just wanted that so bad that, like, I convinced myself that it was true in retrospect, the people in my life were toxic. I had a bunch of issues with my mind. Like my mind was ******. Like really bad mental issues, like struggling with like. Depression in a really bad way, but like wouldn't admit it to myself. So it was like this weird thing that I was like swallowing and bottling up and like not admitting to myself really bad anxiety, no confidence. Like all that **** toxic people around me like and I just but I I convinced myself that I was like living my best life. I don't know, I 1000%. Somebody said what do you do when you're bored or feeling down to lift your spirits especially? In quarantine recently, I think going to the beach has really helped me. I love going to the beach, even if it's just like driving past it. That really helps me jumping in the ocean. If you guys don't live near an ocean, maybe you have a lake, maybe you have a ******* pool in your backyard, maybe you have a bathtub. Like just getting in a body of water for some reason really helps me. It makes me feel really calm and happy. So that's what I've been doing. Alright. So last question. Somebody said if you were to ask your older self a question, what would you ask? I would ask them. You know, actually I don't think I would ask them anything. I don't want to know. Like I don't want to know. I don't want to know. I I like living in the moment. Like, I don't want to know what my life is gonna be like in 10 years. I don't wanna know. I mean, I have my own ideas of what I want it to look like, but I wouldn't even want to ask right now because like, what if I go in a different direction and I do something completely different with my life? That would like, bum me out about what I'm doing now. I'd be like, well then what's the point of what I'm doing now? You know what I mean? So like, no, I don't think I'd ask them anything. On that note, I really have to use the potty. Thank you guys for listening to me just ramble about random **** for so long today. Please feel free to rate, review and subscribe to anything goes on. All the places that you listen to podcasts. I really appreciate it. Leave a review if you want. Give me a little five stars. Never heard nobody and. I really appreciate you guys and I appreciate you listening to me talk and let me just vent to y'all and. If you want to tweet questions or topics to me, Twitter is at Ag podcast. And. That's about it. I'm gonna go. Pee now. I've been holding it for the past 30 minutes and. I love you all so much. Follow your dreams and be yourself. OK, I'm out of here. We're here with Phil talking about what's new with heart Nissan. Phil, what are some good reasons somebody should buy now? That's a great question. We all know that car shopping could be an overwhelming process. Plus, people are uncertain about a lot these days. Hard Nissan, recognize that? So we rolled up a heart rewards program. All new and pre-owned vehicle purchases. Get one year identity theft protection 3, Virginia State inspections and multipoint inspections. One year tire Rd Hazard with roadside assistance. Three day vehicle exchange and every purchase or service earns heart rewards points. That's a ton of stuff. It's amazing. 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